Do you look at your cousin's house and you were not? Why did you come so late from work, they always come out at four? CONTROL: How you spend all the money I give you, or you win? What do you want to go there, better wait for me and I'll take you? To me those friends that you do not like, the better we stay at home watching a movie? How strange that you always have things to do in the street? THE BLACKMAIL: Why do you want to reach earlier if you're always bad? "I was coming so hard to see you and I go out with you want to go with your parents, or the movies? Yes I really wanted, would you go with me, where do I like? INDIFFERENCE: I come home and do not speak … I'm going to lunch with some clients and do not notice …. I'll be late and do not communicate it …. I remain to be for you an hour, and I do not, nor will I apologize … My interests are above yours. SUBMISSION: I want to go to the movies, but if you want us to stay at home, okay. I like the red blouse, but I bought the green to please you.

In short, there are a number of tonic in the relationship that would be impossible to list here, but to go into these games and not be aware of what is involved, we no longer dependent on your partner, but these units, controls, indifference , submissions and in some cases even aggression … I do not see the other to construct the couple in love but in the dependence. Importantly, they do not depend on the couple, but the link we have set … That is, depend on the submission to be with my partner. Depend blackmail to relate to my partner. Depend on the indifference to control my partner. And depends on the games I've established with my beloved soul mate ….

But I think it is the Other, which leads me I react in certain ways. In fact they are my fears and insecurities that make me do it. At this juncture it is probable and possible, that love the couple becomes dependent … Finally, a sentence of reflection Juan Pablo Valdes: The biggest obstacle to love is the secret fear of not being lovable … Think about it … from my point of view, the couple is a project, and as such, it takes time to build it. It is subject to passions and disagreements. Most importantly, observe in how we relate in this life of two. Sometimes talking to others what happens to us gives us light and understanding. If you feel trapped partner in these games see a specialist. Psychotherapy is always very helpful … I would love to write and give his opinion on the spine and themes. Cecreto is a place to heal the wounds of love and heart … It puts at your dispoicion E-Book: With the acquisition of this material have three free consultations with the author via e electronco. And if you subscribe to our newsletter, you will receive, absolutely free, the electronic equipment: The Ten Commandments of married life … .