I am going to arrive behind schedule and I do not communicate you. I am to be in favor of you to one hour, and I do not arrive, I request an excuse either to you My interests are over yours. THE SUBMISSION: I want to go to the cinema, but you want that we remain in house, is well. I like the red color of the blouse, but I buy green for darte the pleasure. In short, they exist a tonic endless number in the relation of pair that would be impossible to enumerate them here, but when entering these games and not to be conscious than it implies, we are depending no longer on our pair, but on these dependencies, controls, indifferences, submissions and in some cases, until aggressions No longer we see the other to construct to the pair in the love but in the dependency. It is important to emphasize, that we do not depend on the pair, but of the bond that we have established That is to say, I depend on the submission to be with my pair. I depend on the blackmail to be able to relate to me to my pair.
I depend on the indifference to control even. And I depend on the games that I have established with my loved twin soul . But I believe that is the other, the one that causes to me that I react of tal o cual way. In fact they are my fears and insecurities those that force to me to do it. In this attitude it is probable and possible, that the love to the pair becomes dependency In order to finish, a phrase of reflection of Juan Pablo Buckets: The greater obstacle for the love, it is the secret fear of not being worthy to be loved Pinselo from my point of view, the pair is a project, and like so, it has been time in constructing it. He is subject to passions, encounter and mix-ups. Most important it is to observe us in the form how we were related in this life of a two. Sometimes to platicar with others what it happens to us gives to light and understanding.
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